Monday, July 28, 2008
July 26, 2008 - Rest in Peace Grandaddy Bish
...Saturday, July 26, my great grandaddy died. LE Bishop. He was 89 years old. I am so blessed to have had a great-grandparent that I got to know. So many people my age never even met their great-grandparents. 6 years ago, my Baba died. She was the love of Grandaddy Bish's life. I am so thankful that I know that they are together now. Grandaddy is talking to Jesus and spending time with his wife once again. His speech is fixed, he isn't confused anymore. I know that he loved each member of his family dearly, but he's happy now. I'm really going to miss him. But, know that I will one day see him again...
Saturday, July 12, 2008
..you're never fully dressed without a smile..
My teacher read us this in one of my education classes the other day, and it made me very happy. I thought I would share it. We all need to hear something like this more often.
Tips for an Exceptional, Superb & Powerful Life!
1.) Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is theultimate antidepressant.
2.) Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
3.) Always pray and make time to exercise.
4.) Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of Six.
5.) Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that ismanufactured in plants.
6.) Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat broccoli, almonds & walnuts.
7.) Try to make at least three people smile each day.
8.) Clear your clutter from your house, car, and desk and let new and flowingenergy into your life.
9.) Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past, negativethoughts or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in thepositive present moment.
10.) Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems aresimply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like an algebraclass....The lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
11.) Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a layman and dinner like a beggar
12.) Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
13.) Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
14.) Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15.) You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
16.) Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
17.) Don't compare your life to others'. You have no Idea what their journey isall about.
18.) Ladies - Go on and burn those 'special' scented Candles, use the 600 threadcount sheets, the good China and wear fancy clothes now. Stop waiting for aspecial occasion. Every day is special.
19.) No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
20.) Frame every so-called disaster with these Words: In five years, will thismatter?'
21.) Forgive everyone for everything.
22.) What other people think of you is none of your business.
23.) Time heals almost everything. Give time, time!
24.) However good or bad a situation is, it will Change.
25.) Your job won't take care of you when you are Sick. Your friends will.Stay in touch with them.
26.) Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
27.) Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. God provides,remember?!
28.) The best is yet to come.
29.) No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
30.) Do the right thing!
31.) Call your family often.
32.) Each night before you go to bed complete the Following statements: 'I amthankful for_____________. Today I accomplished _________.
33.) Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
34.) Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainlydon't want a fast ride.
Tips for an Exceptional, Superb & Powerful Life!
1.) Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is theultimate antidepressant.
2.) Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
3.) Always pray and make time to exercise.
4.) Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of Six.
5.) Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that ismanufactured in plants.
6.) Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat broccoli, almonds & walnuts.
7.) Try to make at least three people smile each day.
8.) Clear your clutter from your house, car, and desk and let new and flowingenergy into your life.
9.) Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past, negativethoughts or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in thepositive present moment.
10.) Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems aresimply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like an algebraclass....The lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
11.) Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a layman and dinner like a beggar
12.) Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
13.) Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
14.) Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15.) You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
16.) Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
17.) Don't compare your life to others'. You have no Idea what their journey isall about.
18.) Ladies - Go on and burn those 'special' scented Candles, use the 600 threadcount sheets, the good China and wear fancy clothes now. Stop waiting for aspecial occasion. Every day is special.
19.) No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
20.) Frame every so-called disaster with these Words: In five years, will thismatter?'
21.) Forgive everyone for everything.
22.) What other people think of you is none of your business.
23.) Time heals almost everything. Give time, time!
24.) However good or bad a situation is, it will Change.
25.) Your job won't take care of you when you are Sick. Your friends will.Stay in touch with them.
26.) Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
27.) Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. God provides,remember?!
28.) The best is yet to come.
29.) No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
30.) Do the right thing!
31.) Call your family often.
32.) Each night before you go to bed complete the Following statements: 'I amthankful for_____________. Today I accomplished _________.
33.) Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
34.) Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainlydon't want a fast ride.
Friday, June 6, 2008
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Saturday, May 24, 2008
..don't blink...we're growing up
So I've been tryin' ta slow it down
I've been tryin' to take it in In this here today, gone tomorrow world we're livin' in
Don't Blink, just like that you're six years old and you take a nap
and ya' Wake up and you're twenty-five and your high school sweetheart becomes your wife Don't Blink,
just might miss your babies growin' like mine did
Turning into moms and dads;
trust me friend, a hundred years go faster than you think
So Don't Blink No, don't blink No, don't blink life goes faster than you think!
I've been tryin' to take it in In this here today, gone tomorrow world we're livin' in
Don't Blink, just like that you're six years old and you take a nap
and ya' Wake up and you're twenty-five and your high school sweetheart becomes your wife Don't Blink,
just might miss your babies growin' like mine did
Turning into moms and dads;
trust me friend, a hundred years go faster than you think
So Don't Blink No, don't blink No, don't blink life goes faster than you think!
...as our lives change, we will still be friends forever.....sisters...a bond that can never be broken..
..cousins...God knew better than to make us sisters. =)..
..As we grow up,we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down... probably will. You will have your heart brokenprobably more than onceand it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fastand you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you have never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back...
..best friends..
Now, kiddos, stop growing up! =)
Love,
Miss Christy
Sunday, May 11, 2008
...it was mommy's day...
So, even though I am not a mom, and don't intend on being anytime soon....I often get to feel some of the joys of motherhood. I love love love my sweet babies at church...I do.
And I am beyond excited....BEYOND excited that in December we will have a new addition to the Jordan family. HOORAY!!!!! =).
But occasionally...you have one of those moments. But, yet I praise God that He doesn't allow my love to dwindle any, just because I get frustrated. I can just want to strangle the little darlings, but yet...I just want to hug them and take them home with me at the end of the day.
Today, we sang in front of the church. Our song was "Here I am to Worship." The kids looked fantastic...but I began to stress when two of my strongest (and who also get the most excited about singing) weren't there. Luckily, all my stressin was for nothin' (you would think God told us not to worry or something) and in came running Makaela and Kegan. The kids looked GREAT. I have so much joy everytime I see them up there. It just takes my whole heart. Especially the youngest ones....it's amazing that at 3...they can sing so loud...and do the motions so preciously. =) After we convinced our youngest girl to pull her dress down and stop flashing the audience ..we get through about half of the song..and I hear this uncontrollable laughter...and then I realized what was happening. Noah...who had a solo...was still close to the mic..and couldn't stop laughing. Now, Noah is my clown. But boy is he smart...he keeps me on my toes with my teaching, but also on my toes with everything else. =) Once Noah keeps laughing, everyone else continues. I'm in the back...trying to get their attention..because they are still doing the motions, just laughing....and I realized that in the middle of the sanctuary, our youngest member of the children's depeartment (Lillie who turns one at the end of the month) is going crazy dancing with the kids....so...I had lost them. I try so hard not to get frustrated in these moments, but at the same time....I know they are so amazing...I want everybody else to get to see what they've worked so hard for. ::sigh::
I love seeing the kids anytime I get to. I love suprise visits to my aparment, late night cleaning trips to the church, play dates...I love all of it...and I love that I feel the love is returned. Nothing makes me happier then hearing "Miss Christy" and the excitement behind their voices.
We are learning the Ten Commandments right now...and I am learning just as much as they are I feel. I'm excited about what God is doing.
And...even though I'm not a mom...I'm thankful for all the moms that I do know...because without them, I couldn't have a part in their children's lives. =)
**Vacation Bible School is June 2nd through June 6th!**
Until Next time,
Miss Christy
And I am beyond excited....BEYOND excited that in December we will have a new addition to the Jordan family. HOORAY!!!!! =).
But occasionally...you have one of those moments. But, yet I praise God that He doesn't allow my love to dwindle any, just because I get frustrated. I can just want to strangle the little darlings, but yet...I just want to hug them and take them home with me at the end of the day.
Today, we sang in front of the church. Our song was "Here I am to Worship." The kids looked fantastic...but I began to stress when two of my strongest (and who also get the most excited about singing) weren't there. Luckily, all my stressin was for nothin' (you would think God told us not to worry or something) and in came running Makaela and Kegan. The kids looked GREAT. I have so much joy everytime I see them up there. It just takes my whole heart. Especially the youngest ones....it's amazing that at 3...they can sing so loud...and do the motions so preciously. =) After we convinced our youngest girl to pull her dress down and stop flashing the audience ..we get through about half of the song..and I hear this uncontrollable laughter...and then I realized what was happening. Noah...who had a solo...was still close to the mic..and couldn't stop laughing. Now, Noah is my clown. But boy is he smart...he keeps me on my toes with my teaching, but also on my toes with everything else. =) Once Noah keeps laughing, everyone else continues. I'm in the back...trying to get their attention..because they are still doing the motions, just laughing....and I realized that in the middle of the sanctuary, our youngest member of the children's depeartment (Lillie who turns one at the end of the month) is going crazy dancing with the kids....so...I had lost them. I try so hard not to get frustrated in these moments, but at the same time....I know they are so amazing...I want everybody else to get to see what they've worked so hard for. ::sigh::
I love seeing the kids anytime I get to. I love suprise visits to my aparment, late night cleaning trips to the church, play dates...I love all of it...and I love that I feel the love is returned. Nothing makes me happier then hearing "Miss Christy" and the excitement behind their voices.
We are learning the Ten Commandments right now...and I am learning just as much as they are I feel. I'm excited about what God is doing.
And...even though I'm not a mom...I'm thankful for all the moms that I do know...because without them, I couldn't have a part in their children's lives. =)
**Vacation Bible School is June 2nd through June 6th!**
Until Next time,
Miss Christy
Sunday, May 4, 2008
..my sissa..
So, against my will, my little sister isn't so little anymore. She's growing up on me..and boy has it been a fun journey. She graduates from high school this month, and begins a new chapter in her life. I love where we are now in our lives though. She truly is my most favorite person. She has turned into such a beautiful young lady. I hope she never goes too far away from me. =)
PS: This last picture is to prove to Clay, Noah, and Elijah that Miss Christy, did indeed, go to preschool at the same place they do. =)
Friday, May 2, 2008
Happy Birthday to the Babies
How much do I love birthday parties for small children? Lots. How much do I love being Miss Christy so that at the age of 21, single, and no kids, I get invited to the parties and it's not weird? Even more!!! =) Ellie and Riley are growing up on me. They have officially turned 3!!
Friday, April 25, 2008
..deal breakers..
This one's not about kiddos either...but lately I've been dealing with alot about "me" so I'm trying to vent some of that out. I'm waiting to get pics arranged and will post a few from Riley and Ellie's 3rd birthday parties.
So, I was inspired by a friend (Trey) to come up with a list of my 'deal breakers' for someone I would like to date. Trey had written a blog with his, and it got me thinking, "ya know, what are my deal breakers? what competely makes me not be interested in a guy?" So over the past few days I've really given it some thought. This is not meant to offend anyone, but this is me. Maybe I will add more as I think, but this is what I've got so far.
1. I will not date anyone I could not see myself one day marrying. This is not to scare anyone off, but at this stage in my life, at the ripe age of 21, it's pointless to waste your time in a relationship, that eventually will end.
2. I cannot date someone who doesn't love Jesus. My faith is the strongest part of me, and if I can't share that with the person I am in a relationships with, then I can't be in a relationship with that person.
3. If he doesn't like children, he's not for me. Children are my life. I have a passion for children..and it would just be dumb for me to try and share my life with someone who despises the little darlings.
4.Smoking. I've dated someone who smokes before...and it's just plain yucky. Now, if you currently smoke, I'd be willing to compromise if none of the other deal breakers were there...but you'd have to be willing to quit.
5. An alcoholic. Absolutely not. Been there, dated that. Not going to happen. It's actually a scary experience...and I could go on for hours why it's a terrible idea..but I won't. If you're an alcoholic, I'm not dating you.
6. Foot Fetish. It is a widely known fact that I hate feet. And when I say this, I don't just mean I think feet are yucky, I truly despise them. I have a complete panic attack if someone touches me with their bare feet. About the age of 5 is when I begin to not be able to handle feet. So, if this guy has a foot fetish, where he is obssessed with feet, this could be an obvious problem.
7. If you've ever lied to me. See ya.
8. If you are rude to my sister, not only will I lose all respect for you, but I will lose complete interest. There is a difference in being playful, and being a jerk. She's a very very important person in my life. So treat her as if she's your own little sister.
9. If you have been in jail for a major felony. Sorry.
10. I have very very strong friendships, two of them with males. These guys are my brothers. If you have a problem with jealousy, and it spills over to them, we will have issues. Now, I understand that at this point in my life, the whole "friends before boys" idea is fading away..and it is time to find someone who becomes your best friend, I understand this, but you must respect the friendship, the bond that has already been built and not be a overpowering jerk about it. And, you must respect my girl-friends. They're the best I could ask for.
11. If you do not have confidence in yourself, NOT being cocky, but if our sole relationship is built around me 'praising' your existance, or trying to convince you that you are worthy to be a human being, it's just not gonna work.
12. If he NEVER makes the first move. Now...I'm all about me putting myself out there occasionally, but let's face it. I'm old fashioned. So do your job. Be the man.
13. If you try to sleep with me, not only will we not work, but I will consider you scum. I am saving myself for my husband. And until we are husband and wife, I belong to God.
14. This goes along with number 13, not only should he not "try anything" with me, but also, respect me and the decisions I have made for my life. They don't have to be the same as yours, but respect that these are mine.
I could probably go on..but I won't. Maybe I'm too picky, but I'm okay with that. I believe God has someone for me, and I believe that I shouldn't lower my standards. Maybe I will be an old cat lady for the rest of forever, but I guess I would manage. I'm a hopless romantic, and I'm okay with that as well. This is who I am. =)
So, I was inspired by a friend (Trey) to come up with a list of my 'deal breakers' for someone I would like to date. Trey had written a blog with his, and it got me thinking, "ya know, what are my deal breakers? what competely makes me not be interested in a guy?" So over the past few days I've really given it some thought. This is not meant to offend anyone, but this is me. Maybe I will add more as I think, but this is what I've got so far.
1. I will not date anyone I could not see myself one day marrying. This is not to scare anyone off, but at this stage in my life, at the ripe age of 21, it's pointless to waste your time in a relationship, that eventually will end.
2. I cannot date someone who doesn't love Jesus. My faith is the strongest part of me, and if I can't share that with the person I am in a relationships with, then I can't be in a relationship with that person.
3. If he doesn't like children, he's not for me. Children are my life. I have a passion for children..and it would just be dumb for me to try and share my life with someone who despises the little darlings.
4.Smoking. I've dated someone who smokes before...and it's just plain yucky. Now, if you currently smoke, I'd be willing to compromise if none of the other deal breakers were there...but you'd have to be willing to quit.
5. An alcoholic. Absolutely not. Been there, dated that. Not going to happen. It's actually a scary experience...and I could go on for hours why it's a terrible idea..but I won't. If you're an alcoholic, I'm not dating you.
6. Foot Fetish. It is a widely known fact that I hate feet. And when I say this, I don't just mean I think feet are yucky, I truly despise them. I have a complete panic attack if someone touches me with their bare feet. About the age of 5 is when I begin to not be able to handle feet. So, if this guy has a foot fetish, where he is obssessed with feet, this could be an obvious problem.
7. If you've ever lied to me. See ya.
8. If you are rude to my sister, not only will I lose all respect for you, but I will lose complete interest. There is a difference in being playful, and being a jerk. She's a very very important person in my life. So treat her as if she's your own little sister.
9. If you have been in jail for a major felony. Sorry.
10. I have very very strong friendships, two of them with males. These guys are my brothers. If you have a problem with jealousy, and it spills over to them, we will have issues. Now, I understand that at this point in my life, the whole "friends before boys" idea is fading away..and it is time to find someone who becomes your best friend, I understand this, but you must respect the friendship, the bond that has already been built and not be a overpowering jerk about it. And, you must respect my girl-friends. They're the best I could ask for.
11. If you do not have confidence in yourself, NOT being cocky, but if our sole relationship is built around me 'praising' your existance, or trying to convince you that you are worthy to be a human being, it's just not gonna work.
12. If he NEVER makes the first move. Now...I'm all about me putting myself out there occasionally, but let's face it. I'm old fashioned. So do your job. Be the man.
13. If you try to sleep with me, not only will we not work, but I will consider you scum. I am saving myself for my husband. And until we are husband and wife, I belong to God.
14. This goes along with number 13, not only should he not "try anything" with me, but also, respect me and the decisions I have made for my life. They don't have to be the same as yours, but respect that these are mine.
I could probably go on..but I won't. Maybe I'm too picky, but I'm okay with that. I believe God has someone for me, and I believe that I shouldn't lower my standards. Maybe I will be an old cat lady for the rest of forever, but I guess I would manage. I'm a hopless romantic, and I'm okay with that as well. This is who I am. =)
Saturday, April 19, 2008
..bittersweet..
Today was bittersweet. This blog...will not be about the children in my life..but instead about a few girls that will always always always be close to my heart. A little background: there are 3 beautiful ladies who I will always call my best friends. Lori, LinZ, and Meg. In high school...we were the 4. It was always us. About senior year...we kind of went our seperate ways, but gladly have stayed in touch. Lori and I remain to be inseperable. I see her at least once a week. Lindsey, was my roomate for a while, but recently moved home...but still...we stay in touch. Meg...oh Meg...always the crazy one..always wild...but always full of love...we kind of lost touch after graduation, but she remained one of us...that no matter where we were...when we did bump in or talk...it was as if nothing ever changed. For the longest time...Meg was my other half. Her family, was mine. I love her. But...she was the one who never dated, who didn't want kids...just wasn't into all that romance.... Well today, Megan got married. She called me a few months ago with the news of a baby..and a wedding. Immediatley, LinZ, Lori, and I made plans to be there, and to throw the baby shower later. So...today was the wedding. I haven't had this much fun, but yet been so emotional in so long. I've decided I don't want to grow up. =)
Here are some pics to document the day.
LinZ, Lori, and I on our way:
This is on the road..before we saw the dead cow that was only sunbathing, before we got lost, before we did U-Turns in the middle of the road, before we saw the Correctional Facility. =)
So, this is what happens, when you are old fashioned and bring a tape to sing your song...they have to go find a boom box...and hold up the whole wedding. =)
Saying their vows...beautiful.
This would be Meg crying, while Lori sings. 
Lori and the kid that actually liked her. =)
Me and Kevin (Megan's Daddy) I love him!
Me and Meg. I love her.
Favorite pic of the day. So many of these taken through the years. 
So. The day was bittersweet. I love my friends. I can't believe we've reached these days. We always talked about our weddings, and the day we would watch Lori sing at all of them...today was the first. LinZ is next...then who knows. ::sigh::
Love,
Miss Christy
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